Get Clear Before You Give Up
A private call for couples or individuals who need honest clarity before they make their next move.
Before you spend months in therapy or make a decision you cannot take back — get clear on what is really happening. This is the first serious step.
Your $295 + GST includes the call, Relationship Readiness Assessment, Love Without Limits book, and video training.
Something has changed.
The conversations feel harder. The distance is growing. One of you may have shut down. You may be walking on eggshells. There may have been betrayal, resentment, or talk of separation. Or you may simply know: we cannot keep going like this.
And yet you are still here — still wondering whether there is a way through. That matters more than most people realise.
The worst thing you can do right now is keep guessing. The second worst thing is to move too fast — toward separation, toward another attempt at fixing the surface — without first understanding what is actually driving the pattern underneath.
This call is designed to help you stop guessing and see what is really happening.
What Your $295 + GST Includes
Five things, delivered before and during the call.
Mentoring Consultation
A confidential Zoom session with Grant and Christine where we look at what is really happening — what is driving the disconnection, the conflict, or the shutdown — and what needs to happen next.
Relationship Readiness Assessment
Completed before your call so we can see where your relationship needs attention first. You arrive prepared. We arrive having already looked at what matters.
Digital Copy of Love Without Limits
Our book on the nine principles behind rebuilding trust, emotional safety, connection, and lasting love. Yours to read before the call.
Love Without Limits Video Training
Short video training that helps you recognise the pattern before we meet. Most people have a significant shift before the call even begins.
Clear Next-Step Recommendation
At the end of the call you will know what is actually happening, what needs attention first, and what the most appropriate next step looks like for your specific situation.
Private Zoom call · For couples or individuals · Available worldwide
This Is For You If...
- You keep having the same argument — or you've stopped having arguments because you've stopped trying.
- One of you has emotionally pulled away.
- You feel more like flatmates than partners.
- There has been an affair, a betrayal, or a significant loss of trust.
- Divorce or separation has been mentioned.
- You are successful in most areas of life but this one area feels unfixable.
- You want something more direct than traditional therapy.
- You want clarity before committing to a longer process.
This Is Not For You If...
Honesty in both directions matters to us.
- You want someone to agree with your side.
- You are not willing to look honestly at your part in the pattern.
- You are in immediate danger or need emergency crisis support.
- You are looking for low-cost ongoing counselling rather than a private diagnostic.
What Happens After You Book
Once you book, you will receive the Relationship Readiness Assessment, your digital copy of Love Without Limits, and access to the Love Without Limits video training. Most people tell us the training alone shifts something before the call.
You complete the assessment privately, in your own time. We review it before we meet so we arrive already understanding the key areas that need attention.
On the call we look together at what is happening, what the pattern is underneath the presenting problem, and what needs to change. At the end, we give you a clear recommendation for the next most appropriate step — whether that is a programme, private mentoring, an intensive, or a place to start on your own.
What Couples Say
Working with Christine and Grant has changed our lives, our relationship and our family in the most profound positive way. I couldn't thank them more if I tried.— Isobel, 2024
We're the best we've ever been in 28 years. We've learned to understand ourselves, each other, and how we can work together as a team and take on the world.— Conor, 2024
Grant and Christine's work saved our relationship. We're stronger and happier than ever.— Greg and Gaynor
More Than Two Decades of This Work
Grant and Christine Wattie have spent more than twenty years helping couples, leaders, and families navigate conflict, disconnection, pressure, and the moments that feel irreversible.
Their approach combines relationship counselling, mentoring, and leadership insight — alongside the lived experience of forty years of marriage, including a season when Christine packed her bags and the marriage nearly ended.
What they learned from almost losing each other became the foundation of everything they now teach. Over 5,000 couples helped. More than 10,000 sessions. An 85 to 90 percent success rate.
This is not generic advice. It is private, direct, compassionate work for people who want clarity and change.
Meet Grant and ChristineQuestions We Often Hear
Ideally, yes. The call works best when both partners are present. If only one of you is ready to take this step, you can still book as an individual. Many relationships begin to shift when one person becomes clearer and calmer about their side of the pattern.
This is a private relationship diagnostic and mentoring process. Grant is an experienced counsellor and relationship mentor, but this call is designed to give you clarity, direction, and a clear next step — not to begin open-ended therapy.
You will receive the Relationship Readiness Assessment, your digital copy of Love Without Limits, and access to the video training — all before the call. You will also receive the Zoom link and any preparation guidance.
We look at what is happening in your relationship, the pattern underneath the conflict or distance, what needs attention first, and which next step is most appropriate for where you are right now.
We will be honest with you. The purpose of the call is to help you see what is repairable, what needs to change, and whether a deeper process makes sense. We don't withhold what we observe.
That is exactly when clarity matters most. This call can help you slow the situation down, understand the real pattern, and decide what needs to happen before irreversible decisions are made.
You can book the call yourself. One person shifting can change the dynamic significantly — not through tactics or management, but through who they are being in the relationship.
Yes. Your $295 + GST includes the mentoring consultation, Relationship Readiness Assessment, digital copy of Love Without Limits, and access to the video training.
At the end of the call we will recommend the most appropriate next step. That may be a programme, private mentoring, an intensive, or simply a clear starting point to work from yourselves. There is no pressure.
Yes. The call and assessment are private and confidential.
Start With Clarity
Before you decide what comes next, understand what is really happening. Your $295 + GST includes the mentoring consultation, Relationship Readiness Assessment, Love Without Limits book, and video training.
Book Your Mentoring Consultation — $295 + GST