When Your Marriage and Your Legacy Are Both on the Line
For entrepreneurs, executives, farming families, business couples, and leaders navigating succession — when the relationship at the centre of everything needs more than weekly sessions can give..
Grant Wattie — Author of Love Without Limits, 40+ years married, 10,000 clients mentored
The Work Nobody Else Does
We are not therapists. We are not coaches. We work at the intersection of both — with people for whom the stakes are too high for anything less than genuine transformation.
In twenty years and more than ten thousand sessions, one thing has proven true across every couple, every culture, every level of complexity:
The relationship does not change until the people in it change who they are being — not just what they are doing.
That shift. That is what we create.
For Family Enterprise and Succession
Meet Grant & Christine Wattie — Authors of Love Without Limits
For over 20 years, we’ve mentored entrepreneurs, executives, and high-achieving couples facing the highest stakes in their relationships. Married for more than 40 years, we know the pressure of balancing love, leadership, and legacy.
Our book Love Without Limits and the Inside-Out Method™ have helped thousands of couples create breakthroughs in days, not years.
Transform Your Relationship With the Right Program
From rapid breakthroughs to complete transformations, choose the path that best fits your relationship needs.
Million Dollar Marriage™ (90 Days)
A structured 90-day program to rebuild trust, connection, and communication for lasting change.
Elite Couples Intensives
A bespoke 2–3 day experience designed for couples who need rapid breakthroughs in just one weekend.
Love Without Limits Fast Start
A rapid 3-week program to stop conflict and create more connection.
Phoenix Protocol™ (Crisis)
For couples on the brink of separation who need immediate, strategic intervention.
Real Stories. Real Transformations.
Couples who once felt hopeless are now thriving — here’s what they have to say.
Grant and Christine’s Million Dollar Marriage programme saved our relationship. We’re stronger and happier than ever.
The Love Without Limits Fast Start helped us stop fighting and actually reconnect. In 3 weeks, we felt like a different couple.
We were on the brink of divorce, but this approach helped us rebuild. Now we’re closer than ever.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Everything you need to know
before you reach out.
How do I know if you can help us?
The first step is a free 15-minute introduction call. No commitment, no pressure. We look at your situation honestly and tell you whether and how we can help. If we can, we book a one-hour consultation where we map where you are, where you want to be, and build an exact gameplan to get there. That consultation is $295 plus GST. Most people leave it knowing for the first time exactly what needs to happen.
How much does a consultation cost?
The 15-minute introduction call is at no charge. The one-hour consultation, where we look at your situation in depth and build a specific gameplan, is $295 plus GST. That consultation stands alone as a complete piece of work. If you decide to go further, the cost of the consultation is credited toward your programme.
How do I save my marriage when my partner wants out?
The most effective move is to change who you are being rather than trying to change your partner. When one person shifts genuinely, the relational dynamic between you shifts with it. We have worked with hundreds of couples where one partner had already decided to leave. In the majority of cases, a real shift in one person is enough to reopen the conversation. Start with the free 15-minute call.
Is it too late to save a marriage after an affair?
Not in most cases. An affair is almost always a symptom of a disconnection that existed long before it happened. We specialise in affair recovery and work with couples in acute crisis through The Phoenix Protocol. The goal is not to return to the relationship you had before. It is to build one neither of you has experienced yet. The place to start is the free 15-minute call.
How quickly can we expect to see results?
Most couples notice a meaningful shift within the first one to two sessions. Our work addresses the context each person is operating from, not just the behaviour on the surface. When context shifts, everything else reorganises automatically. That is why our results happen in days and weeks rather than months. The one-hour consultation alone is enough for most people to see exactly what has been driving the problem.
Does couples therapy work?
When both people are genuinely willing to engage, yes. We report an 85 to 90 percent success rate across more than 5,000 couples over two decades of direct practice, including couples presenting with affairs, long-term disconnection, and imminent separation. The key variable is never the severity of the problem. It is the willingness to do the real work.
What happens in the one-hour consultation?
We look at three things together: where you are right now, where you genuinely want to be, and an exact gameplan to get you there. It is not a therapy session. It is a clear-eyed assessment of your situation and a specific road forward. By the end of the hour you will know precisely what is driving the problem and what needs to happen next. It costs $295 plus GST and can be done in person or via video.
Do we both need to be on the call?
Not necessarily, and not always possible. We regularly work with one partner first, particularly in situations where the other has shut down or refused to engage. A genuine shift in one person changes the dynamic for both. If your partner is not ready to come, reach out anyway. The 15-minute introduction call will tell you what is possible from where you are right now.
What is the Million Dollar Marriage programme?
The Million Dollar Marriage is a structured 90-day intensive programme for couples who are serious about going from good to great. Not just saving the marriage, but leading it. It combines video content, worksheets, and fortnightly mentoring with Grant and Christine to rebuild trust, deepen connection, and end the conflict cycles that keep couples stuck. It covers the leadership and communication strategies most couples are never taught, applied directly to your relationship. Designed for couples in business together, high-performing professional couples, and anyone committed to building the best relationship they are capable of. Pricing is bespoke and scoped through the one-hour consultation.
What does a couples intensive involve?
A couples intensive is a concentrated engagement typically running two to three days, designed to achieve in one focused block what weekly sessions take months to approach. It is structured around your specific situation, not a generic programme. Every intensive is bespoke. Pricing is scoped through the one-hour consultation once we understand exactly what is needed. Intensives can be delivered in person in Havelock North or in a location of your choosing.
Do you offer ongoing monthly mentoring or coaching?
Yes. For couples and individuals who want sustained support beyond an intensive or consultation, we offer monthly mentoring and coaching programmes. These are structured around your goals, not a fixed curriculum, and evolve as you do. Pricing is bespoke and agreed at the outset based on scope and frequency. The one-hour consultation is where we establish what ongoing support would look like for your situation.
How is pricing structured for your programmes?
The 15-minute introduction call is at no charge. The one-hour consultation is $295 plus GST. Beyond that, all programmes, including couples intensives, the Million Dollar Marriage programme, and monthly mentoring and coaching engagements, are priced bespoke. We do not offer off-the-shelf packages because no two situations are the same. The consultation is where we scope exactly what is needed and what it will cost.
Can we work with you if we are not in New Zealand?
Yes. We work with clients globally via video. The depth and effectiveness of the work is not diminished by working remotely. Clients have included couples and families across Australia, the United States, the United Kingdom, Asia, and the Middle East. The process is the same: start with the free 15-minute call and we take it from there.