Online Couples Therapy Worldwide
We are based in Havelock North, New Zealand, and we work online with couples in the United States, Canada, Australia, Singapore, the UK, and beyond. Same method, same results. What changes is where you are sitting when you have the conversation.
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Wherever you live
Online couples therapy works for couples living abroad, for couples in different cities or countries, and for couples who cannot find the right help where they live.
We nearly lost our own marriage. Over twenty years and more than 10,000 sessions since, we have helped thousands of couples find their way back.
Where you live has nothing to do with it. The pattern is the same in Auckland, Austin, and Singapore. So is the way out.
The time difference works for you
New Zealand sits ahead of almost everyone, which makes scheduling easier than couples expect.
United States & Canada
Our weekday mornings are your afternoon and evening, the day before. Meet us together after work, from home.
Australia
Two to three hours behind us. Ordinary business hours line up on both sides.
Singapore & Asia
Four to five hours behind us. Our afternoon is your late morning.
UK & Europe
Our morning is your evening, and our evening is your morning. Both work.
Australia: Sydney, Melbourne and beyond
Australian couples work with us online, which means distance is no barrier. The time difference between eastern Australia and New Zealand is small, so scheduling is easy, and the work itself is identical to sitting in a room together. Online removes the cross-city commute and the local waitlist, and lets you do the real work from your own home.
We meet couples at every stage, from quiet drift to acute crisis. For couples facing an affair, a threatened separation, or a complete shutdown, we use the Phoenix Protocol. For the broader rebuild we use the Inside-Out Method and the 9 Principles of Love Without Limits.
Therapy with momentum
Some couples spend months processing the same material without much changing. Our work is built around movement, clear focus, and a different way of being that you actually practise. We bring together the understanding of why a marriage gets stuck and the drive to change it now.
The marriage intensive
The weekly model has a built-in limitation. By the time a couple settles, warms up, and reaches something true, the hour is over, and a week of ordinary life passes before they return to it. An intensive removes that reset. Our private two-day intensive runs online as well as in person. Australian couples are also welcome to join us in Havelock North for our private two-day intensive.
Questions couples overseas ask us
Do you work with couples in the United States and Canada?
Yes. We work online with couples across the United States and Canada, and the time difference works in your favour. Our weekday mornings in New Zealand land in your afternoon and evening the day before, so you can meet us together after work without taking time off. The method is identical to sitting in the room with us.
Do you work with couples in Australia and Singapore?
Yes. Australia is only two to three hours behind New Zealand, so ordinary business hours line up. For Singapore and the rest of Asia, our afternoon is your late morning.
Can we do couples therapy online if we live in different cities or countries?
Yes. Each of you joins by video from wherever you are, and we find a time that works across both time zones.
Is online as effective as meeting in person?
Yes. We have run online sessions for years and many of the most significant breakthroughs have happened over video. You join from your own home, on equal footing, with no travel and no waiting room. Both of you can be in the same room or in different cities. All you need is a reliable connection and somewhere private.
What happens in an online couples therapy session?
You get a link ahead of time and join from wherever you have reasonable privacy and a good enough internet connection. You can both be in the same room together, or if your schedules mean you're in different locations, that can work too.
What do we book with you from overseas?
From outside New Zealand you book mentoring sessions with us by video. It is the same work we do with couples here at home, and we quote fees in your own currency.
What is a marriage intensive, and can we do one from overseas?
It is concentrated, focused time to work through the real dynamic in your marriage, rather than spreading the work across months of weekly hour-long sessions. Our private two-day intensive runs online as well as in person, so couples in the United States, Canada, Australia, Singapore and beyond can do it from home. Australian couples are also welcome to join us in Havelock North, and we talk through the travel on the call.
What if good relationship help isn't available where we live?
That is exactly where online helps most. It removes the limit of geography, so you can work with people whose approach fits your situation rather than only who practises nearby.
How do we start?
Book a Mentoring Consultation, or start with a free 10-minute call. We will find a time that suits your time zone, listen to where you are, and give you a straight answer on whether we can help.
Want a first step before a call? Try the free 2-Minute Conflict Check, or read the blog. More answers on the FAQ page.
Wherever You Are, Start Here
Sessions online in your own time zone, prices in your own currency, and a free ten-minute call if you want a straight answer first.
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